I was the other woman (and he died)

Grief is grief, yes.

But for something so universally human, grief is also just like snowflakes in that no two griefs can ever be exactly alike. Your grief is a special recipe (and I don’t mean Thousand Island dressing) that is unique to you, your relationship with the dead, everything you said and did and didn’t say and didn’t do.

And for all the grief w…